It's always heard to say goodbye. We have now made it guys!!!!!!!!. I just remembered like it was yesterday when i was a "freshmen", and everybody especially seniors kept us informed that "our freshmen year is going to go by quick", and i now see it flash before my eyes. You can only experience high school once in your lifetime, but if you don't know how to handle it , you might find yourself going in the right direction.Nobody said that you can't have fun in high school ,just make sure you choose your friends wisely, and follow the right pathway. They say "there is a time to play", and "there is a time to work", when being a senior you don't have time play because you may have been doing good all year , and soon as you become a senior you start to pick up (senior ritis)which means that you give up, and lay back. Believe it or not, i remember when i had senior ritis and i didn't want to do no work, i finally realized that if i set myself up for failure than i will be the once to struggle alone, while the rest walk on stage. I had to much pride, and self-confidence to let that happen. So i focused , and focused. I am now accomplished going to Georgia State University with a GPA of (3.45). To all the juniors, sophomores, freshmen!!!!! you can do it too.. Keep your head up and never give up.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Friday, April 30, 2010
What is the world coming to?
Life flashes right before your eyes before you know it. You loose people you love before you get a chance to say bye. Your tears of joy ends up to amount to tears of lost and grief. Friends,family, gatherers,and haters, you see today may be gone tomorrow. Live life to love and not to regret. Live up to the fullest , and live it like it's your last day.
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Thursday, April 22, 2010
High school Relationships
High School Relationships has taken its twist and turns in high school. High school relationships had made individuals forget who they really are. People tend to put all their efforts into high school relationships, and don’t get the same amount out of it. I personally like high school relationships because “there is always somewhere to began”, and it gives you a chance to grow up., and be mature. Some people take high school relationships too seriously because they feel like they are in love, or they have found the right one already. Relationships can make you do a lot of things .for instance- you found your sole m ate, and you are so much in love or ‘you taught you was”, and he cheated on you, what you would do? How would you react? Will you go fight the girl he is involved with? Will you be smart and break up with him? Or will you just stay with him because you love him. I would break up with him because no matter how long we have been together, if he cheated than our relationship doesn’t mean anything to him, and remember if he did it, then he will do it again. Relationships in general have reached its limits because some people are even being involved in open relationships. High school sweethearts have taken a major role in high school because some end up getting married, or divorced. Most of the time, I person you fall in love with in high school is the one you meet up with, and tend to spend the rest of your life with. There are also No, no’s in high school relationships. Controlling , abusing, unfaithful, disrespect, dishonest, e.t.c
Posted by fatou at 10:19 PM 7 comments
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Sandra Bullock Surfaces To Visit Friend; Trump Reacts To Jesse James
The actress,Sandra bullock, who has remained out of sight since multiple women alleged affairs against her husband Jesse James, braved swarms of photographers to reportedly visit a friend. Well we've reached another incident with cheating, but this time he has been cheating with multiple ladies while he was married. They proved that he has a sex addiction, and he recently took his little cheating behind to rehab.In my opinion ( if i was Sandra bullock) I would leave his behind because there is nothing to be fixed. I would leave him with multiple child supports and definitely make his life a living Hell. I also heard that they had an open relationship but i don't know if it was true. One thing i know in a marriage, if there isn't trust than there is no bond.If i had one question for him that would be, what did Sandra do to deserve this kind of treatment from her husband? i wonder how she feels with the media being in her business.
Posted by fatou at 6:42 PM 4 comments
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
middle schoolers charged with sexual battery . Are we criminalizing being 13 and stupid.
A male student was allegedly the victim of sexual battery on March 10, Wednesday. Six students at the school were identified as participants in sexual battery against a little boy at Stephenson middle school. six of those have been charged and will face school disciplinary action. (DeKalb county school systems), what is going on these days we can never seem to get ourselves out the news. Now this incident is kinda different, its actually an incident i have never heard before. How were they able to leave a hole in the young man's pants. I DON't KNOW. Kids these days are taking playing to seriously because as you can see playing can lead ad to a lot of things. Then again media also have a reputation of twisting stories around to make it more extreme. Like when they said that "they took the boys clothes off" that was a lie. When they said 'The child was placed in a locker naked" that was a lie also.One of the boys that was involved seem to think that he was off the hook" i was on Facebook last night, and my sister was showing me one of the boys involved he quoted " man i am only 13, they ain't going to do nothing to me, because i am just a little boy, they didn't even charge me for anything, they just so stupid because they got the whole story twisted so i don't care if i am all over the news. My response towards his quote is that" to be so ignorant, is to not be smart". They should charge all of them and i don't care if they are 12 years old because now the victim has something to put on his mind for the rest of his life. Ignorance is to not be so stupid!!!!!! Think before you convey your actions.
Posted by fatou at 11:36 PM 7 comments
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
My issue on Lesbians and Gays (this is got to stop)
I think that this issue is so sad that its ridiculous.Why in the world would you want to wear a tuxedo to prom (come on now) you a female and you cant change that. i think that some of these gay females are getting too carried away these days. I think we just need to have a new city, state, county, zip code, and country just for them, because i think that they are a huge distraction to the straight ones. I wonder how their parents feel seeing them either walk like a broken horse ,or look like a basketball rundown. Their parents need to sit them down and ask them what their problem is " because obviously they don't get it" . I mean i am tired of walking down the hallways and seeing a gay boy walk better than me, and wear jeans tighter than the one's i wear. I am tired of walking in the hallways and seeing the so call "ladies" sagging their pants down their bots. i mean come on, they might as well tell the ladies "no sagging", because some sag more than the guys do .Its sad but everybody is not always happy, so you just have to let them be their own individuality of gayness.So with all that said, They need to bring it down because they are doing a little bit to much....
Posted by fatou at 6:06 PM 6 comments
Thursday, March 11, 2010
who do we think we are?To be so ignorant and to think we are better than poor countries.
Here we go again continuing to be ignorant as usual. People in our society today are sooo ignorant some dont even know where their ancestors came from.The most thing i hate is when people say "you look african" , or do you'll wear clothes in Africa,(how ignorant is that). So ofcourse i have to come with a comeback lol. So i say " no we dont wear clothes in Africa but when one of us get shipped to America like me,we rock your clothes like you never would, we wear more name brands than you can afford. (Hey)im just saying. If you truly know where you come from , you would know that your ancestors came from africa. Why do we have to be so ignorant sometimes. (i guess there is no answer for that). My point is that no matter where you came from we are all africans no matter what you think it is, so lets not be so ignorant about it.
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Friday, March 5, 2010
Debbie Rowe"modified" by Jackson kids stun gun reports
Are Michael Jackson's kids in danger living with his mom?
Debbie Rowe is starting to wonder. Flexing her rights as the surviving – though not custodial – parent of Michael's eldest kids, Prince, 13, and Paris, 11, Rowe is "quite upset" to hear about antics involving a stun gun at the Jackson family compound, her close friend Marc Schaffel tells PEOPLE.
The trouble focuses on reports that Michael's 13-year-old nephew Jaafar, who also lives with the King of Pop's mother Katherine Jackson, bought the weapon online and may have tried to harm Michael's third child, Blanket, 8.
"Right now she is mortified and very, very concerned over the welfare of her children and what they are being exposed to," her pal Marc Schaffel tells PEOPLE.
The L.A. County Department of Children and Family Services has reportedly visited the Jackson's Encino, Calif., home at last three times. Katherine's attorney contends Blanket was never threatened and that Paris never saw the weapon. But Schaffel says that Rowe was informed that Paris and Prince both saw the gun.
Rowe, who has not seen the children since Jackson's death, "will take steps to make sure this doesn’t happen again," but in the meantime she is "waiting to see what Children and Family Services says first," says Schaffel.
The L.A. County Department of Children and Family Services has reportedly visited the Jackson's Encino, Calif., home at last three times. Katherine's attorney contends Blanket was never threatened and that Paris never saw the weapon. But Schaffel says that Rowe was informed that Paris and Prince both saw the gun.
Posted by fatou at 5:17 AM 5 comments
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
love & its limits
Love always have its twist and turns,love has its ups and downs, love has its upgrades and downgrades. Falling in love is taking alot of risk between getting your heart broken and really falling in love with somebody you truly bond with. Some people take the word love to quick ,meaning they'll be going out with their boyfriends / girlfriends and they say "i love him or i love her", not even knowing what it really means .love is a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction. Loving someone is not a playful word to use to describe how you really feel about someone, you can say "i really like him or I really like her" but dont say you love them because you're going with what you think you feel, but dont really know your true feelings. Now we've come with the limits of the risk that love has taken. Love has taken so many risk that people will even die for the person they love, now that is crazy because no (boy) is worth me dying for... lol , but seriously some people even let their mates control them just because they go with them, they have the authority to control them. Boys personally think since you love them so much , and they notice it they can play you and you wont say nothing because you addicted that love sound in your head that you not facing the fact that he is doing wrong. love can only go too far. Have you ever felt so in love that you're willing to sacrifice everything you've got for that person or to keep that person in your heart? well i did, i was once in love and i swear i would have done anything in the world to keep my relationship alive, now that was a 3 year relationship, so i actually have the right to say i really loved him, but love dont always work both ways. People can fall in and out of love but if its real love it shall never fade away . limits yeah rite lol.
Posted by fatou at 4:22 PM 5 comments
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Parents being too strict
Do you have parents that are too strict? There are so strict they ask the 5W's and H. Who, What,When, Where, Why, How. My parents are, My parents are the one that will call 15times just to see when you are coming up, and 10 to see if you rang the doorbell yet. Have your parents ever made you feel like you need to be around people and need to be free like the rest of your friends, go to the movies without taking your little sister or little brother. Every time i want to go to a party or 0ut with my ,friends i always have to take my little sister with me or i cant go. I get mad alot because my friends get to go every where and i have t,o bring my sister along, now my friends don't even invite me to there parties because they say "you know fatou cant come unless she brings her sister". The reflection of this is that if your parents are too strict at a point where its ridiculous , you start to do things behind there back, and when they find out they get mad but the fact is that they didn't give you space, and if they gave you a little bit of space maybe the outcomes wouldn't end up like this.My mom will definitely regret being so strict because when i go off to college she will miss me more than when i was at home.
Posted by fatou at 4:32 PM 4 comments
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
what causes divorce?
There are as many theories on this issue as there are people offering them. The usual explanations are communication, compromise, and commitment, and it’s hard to disagree with them.
Indeed, if both spouses were consistently able to communicate with each other, able and willing to compromise with each other, and 100% committed to their marriage, it’s hard to see how it could fail.
For those with a fundamental faith foundation, the answer is clear. Marriages work if both spouses obey the principles of the faith. For a more prosaic explanation, check marriagebuilders.com, where therapist Willard Harley lays out a simple set of principles he says any couple can use to help their romance survive and thrive.
When you think about it, this makes sense. It’s startling to reflect on how little time husbands and wives spend in genuinely romantic interaction. They will spend most of their married life relating to each other as friends. If either or both of them lacks the essential skills or inclination to do that, the marriage is unlikely to thrive.
One thing I feel strongly about is how little impact adultery has on divorce, and I know that I'm going against the tide here. I hear constantly from all-knowing observers - many of them fundamentalist Christians - who proclaim that if you look behind most divorces, you'll find an adulterous affair somewhere. That may be partially true, because many divorces do involve adultery, but I believe adultery to be a symptom, not a cause, of most divorces. Adultery is a reaction to abuse, and it is a tool of abuse.
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Thursday, January 21, 2010
Depression
causes
The exact cause of depression is not known. Many researchers believe it is caused by chemical imbalances in the brain, which may be hereditary or caused by events in a person's life.
Some types of depression seem to run in families, but depression can also occur in people who have no family history of the illness. Stressful life changes or events can trigger depression in some people. Usually, a combination of factors is involved.
Men and women of all ages, races, and economic levels can have depression. It occurs more often in women.
Women are especially vulnerable to depression after giving birth. This is a result of hormonal and physical changes. Although new mothers commonly experience temporary "blues," depression that lasts longer than 2 - 3 weeks is not normal and requires treatment.
Major depression can occur in children and teenagers, and they can also benefit from treatment.
Treatment
Depression can be treated in a variety of ways, particularly with medications and counseling. Most people benefit from a combination of the two treatments. Some studies have shown that antidepressant drug therapy combined with psychotherapy has better results than either therapy alone.
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Thursday, December 17, 2009
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Thursday, December 3, 2009
friendship ( Are you really a friend?)
Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words."
This heartwarming expression captures the essence of friendship. When two people share a strong bond of mutual understanding, respect and love it lays the foundation stone for an everlasting friendship. This bond just gets stronger with time; the trust between the two people grows and so does the attachment.
This is the beauty of the relationship and is the essential meaning of friendship.Being friends means being there for each other at all times, whether it's good or bad. A friend needs to be very understanding and give each other the benefit of the doubt. Ideally the meaning of friendship is sharing unconditional love for each other. However this is not an ideal world; therefore some form of expectations are allowed, but that has a limit too. The purpose and meaning of friendship is to make life's burdens lighter for our friends and not make them heavier.
These are the ten rules for keeping a friendship STRONG:
1. being able to keep a secret
2. buiding trust with your friend
3. be honest and truthful to your friend
4. always be there for your friend good and bad times
5. giving good advice to lead the right path
6. always encourage your friend with a positive attitude
7. taking up for them when they get picked on
8. be happy for your friend when they do good things
9. dont interfere in your friends relationship
10. remember!!!!!! DONT MESS WITH YOUR FRIENDS BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND because that will definately end a friendship....
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Sunday, November 22, 2009
social networking and it's limits
i love social networking because i get to communicate with friends, and send pictures,videos and keep in touch with the one's i haven't seen in a long time. I love myspace because i can design my page the way i like, and put songs that interest me , but most of us would agree that social networking is reaching its limit between social network fatigue and the increasing multiplication of niche social networks, social networks especially myspace, facebook and twitter has gone mad crazy these days. When i get on myspace, i go and check my messages and get off line. when i get on facebook(which i barely do)i do the same routine, but it reaches its limits when Others seem to have a different routine in mind , they tend to get on myspace and post inappropriate comments, pictures,and videos. Most of the worst things are that kids ages of 11-14 already started having myspace and facebook. Some females get on myspace and facebook, and post nude pictures ,and males show their inappropriate images.I think they should have a security agreement in which you cant post nothing inappropriate in that case we wont have any unappropriated footage.
Posted by fatou at 9:59 PM 7 comments
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
teen pregnancy
Teen pregnancy is one of the most difficult experiences a young person might ever face when it interrupts school or other plans. It can create an emotional crisis resulting in feelings of shame and fear, and it may appear that you will crumble under pressures in your environment. The stress of how you are going to break this news to your parents might be even greater, and finding help may seem an impossible task.
You might think no one can help you, or you might be too embarrassed to search for help. However, denying the pregnancy or ignoring it can only make things worse for you and your baby. Denial will not take the pregnancy away; instead, you will lose the time you could have invested in prenatal care and counseling. You have options, and making a choice may be simple or difficult, depending on your situation. Check resources carefully and try to give yourself the opportunity to make the best informed decision possible.
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Sunday, November 8, 2009
[A day in the life Of me]or should i say The model
A day of a life of me can be quite confusing. I love having fun and hanging out with family and friends. I love to go to parties, and i love to flirt. I love going to fashion shows, and being in one. I love spending time with my mom because she is my admirer, and she shows me the right direction in life. I love modeling because i want to be a model when i grow up, and hoping to show up on America's Next top model next year when i grow up.I love posing because i love taking pictures and i am also photogentic.I love hanging out with my family because there nothing like one, and they are always gonna be there for you no matter what.i love to dress up and match from head to toe cuz as a model you should have a sense of fashion LOL!!!!!!!!!!!I hate listening to rap music because i dont ever understand what they are saying...LOL , I love r&B, love songs Hip hop because thats my sense of music and has a good genre to it....One last thing about A day in the life of me is that i love to eat but never grow...LOL.... THE END
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Tuesday, November 3, 2009
self expression
self expression in my own words mean expressing yourself in different and many ways. Self expression really describes who you are as an individual.I respect self expression very much because you show people who you are by the way you dress, and the way you express your differences.The time you determine when self expression has cross the lane is when you really get overboard with your self description to a point where you want to be seen because you not getting enough attention, or you just want to be funny because you know you different. My Advice is be who you are , express yourself in 1 million ways if you have to but you dont have to show it to be seen.. LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE AND NOBODY CAN CHANGE THAT.
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