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Thursday, December 3, 2009

friendship ( Are you really a friend?)




Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words."

This heartwarming expression captures the essence of friendship. When two people share a strong bond of mutual understanding, respect and love it lays the foundation stone for an everlasting friendship. This bond just gets stronger with time; the trust between the two people grows and so does the attachment.

This is the beauty of the relationship and is the essential meaning of friendship.Being friends means being there for each other at all times, whether it's good or bad. A friend needs to be very understanding and give each other the benefit of the doubt. Ideally the meaning of friendship is sharing unconditional love for each other. However this is not an ideal world; therefore some form of expectations are allowed, but that has a limit too. The purpose and meaning of friendship is to make life's burdens lighter for our friends and not make them heavier.

These are the ten rules for keeping a friendship STRONG:

1. being able to keep a secret
2. buiding trust with your friend
3. be honest and truthful to your friend
4. always be there for your friend good and bad times
5. giving good advice to lead the right path
6. always encourage your friend with a positive attitude
7. taking up for them when they get picked on
8. be happy for your friend when they do good things
9. dont interfere in your friends relationship
10. remember!!!!!! DONT MESS WITH YOUR FRIENDS BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND because that will definately end a friendship....

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

I agree that you should always be there for your friends, no matter what. I think you should also praise your friends, to make them feel like you are proud of them.

Kelcie said...

Number ten is on, like everybody's lists! I think that goes with out saying, unless for some reason your friend gives you 'permission.' Your list is a good one.

Danielle said...

Lol yea number 10 is on everyones. But i mean its true...like messing with your friends exes or crushes is just....lamee..like thats just dirty and grimy and it creates drama..so nobody should do that.

Anonymous said...

yea i like them strong points gurl lol ;0... but yea number 10 you might get beat up doin that but i really like..

Jon said...

Very straight forward I like how you bolded strong I gues syou wanted some intense meaning there very stable points..

Demarcus said...

I agree with all your ideas of keeping friends

Tai Destiny said...

Friends should be positive towards eachother and push one another forward to do good in life. I agree that they should want to see you succeed and lead a happy life. negative people aren't really good friends.

Miss Jones said...

Friends are everything to me and the part about not dating each others ex's is number forsure. I believe friends should always be there for you.

PandappleExpress said...

number one, two, three, four, seven, nine and ten are my favorites. lol. but number one is my favorite of the favorites. a secret is something close to you and for you to tell a friend you expect them to keep it. a real friend does. and number ten, yea me agree completely.